TIME TO BE A MAN
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OK So it is time for some one to talk to the Grooms. There are a trillion forums, blogs, and tips for the bride. I think it is time that we talk to the grooms about a small problem at weddings.
Some times the problem is the groom!!!
OK . . . Let me explain myself. I am a wedding entertainer (DJ). I get the opportunity to be a part of so many couples lives every year. I do my best to help them with planning their perfect party. I also get the chance to provide audio for the ceremony of many of these couples. I can not tell you how many times ,I have sat across the table from a couple and explained that the lapel mic will be concealed by the tux. Only to hear the groom grunt, and the bride say "he wont be wearing a tux".
So here we go. Guys I think that we have a false understanding of what the wedding day really is. To most of us it is just a day when we will be paraded in front of our friends, love ones and people you have never met. Where you will have to dance, eat food, and take pictures. Right? Wrong!!!
Now lets go back to when you were a kid. I am willing to bet that you never played groom as a child, unless you had an older sister. A vast majority of women have been dreaming about this day for longer than most will admit.
You have now dated for a while, and you decide that this woman is the one that you have to share your life with. You do the most cheesy thing you can imagine and get down on a knee. You ask a 4 word question, and she accepts your proposition. This is where it gets tricky, the planning for a celebration begins. Decisions start to be made, and for the most part, it doesn't matter to you whether it is a pure white or off white invitation. Then you start killing the dream! "I will not wear a penguin suit" "I will not take Dance lessons" "I will not take engagement pictures" and so on.
Let me explain something to you. If they could have the wedding without the groom, some would, and some have tried. Your bride, not wanting to scare you right out of the gate, will compromise with you. You will then feel as if you have some control of the disaster that this has turned into. All you wanted was a party!!
Guys, It's time to be a Man. This woman is about to dedicate her life to you. She will stand behind every stupid business idea you have. She will give you kids. She is going to be the rock by your side. Now, don't you think that deserves one day?? You are going to be in front of your friends and family proclaiming your love for her, why not do it in a tux. You see, to a bride one of the most important things is to see the grooms reaction when she steps out. Why not look just as good for her? At the reception they are going to make you dance, just the two of you, for about 4 minutes. Forget the world, focus on the woman in front of you. Use the dance moves you learned from that weird guy you have told all your friends about.
Men, when people tell you to choose your battles, let me suggest that you go with the flow and, help your wife, fulfill her dream. So many times I see Boys who hold a wedding hostage with the whole My Way or the Highway attitude. Chances are that you WILL have a say in the wedding. You will become a music expert by the time of your reception, not to mention the many wineries that you must visit to make sure the guest have good spirits. As a man it is your responsibility to help, not hinder your bride. You have told her that you are going to do your best to make her happy. . . show her. Plus this is practice for the day it is your responsibility to give your little girl her dream wedding.
It is time to be a Man, Show her what she really means to you.
It is a tip that will help you now and down the road.
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